I really get how hard it is. I'd been with mine for well over three years when this happened to me. The relationship had always been so solid, reliable and supportive. Yet she was willing to leave it just like that. My therapist does also have a tendency to agree with me. If I say "we just have to space out the appointments because I can't afford it" she will say "okay, that's fine". She is still willing to work with me though, if I actually stop and talk to her about it, she just seems to have a thing about me calling that shots like that and if I offer something like that she just says yes.

I know bringing finances into a special relationship like this, and to risk losing something so supportive and helpful because of something like money is just a really, really tough thing to face. Do try to be honest with her when you see her, and explain how you've been feeling.