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Old Nov 11, 2012, 10:04 PM
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Wow, you have been through a lot.Anyone just mugged would definately not feel safe especially in the same neighborhood, and even at home .Can you take a week off, and go visit friends somewhere just to get away for a while? I know this is a new job, but that mugging was very scary for even the strongest person in the whole world. Maybe a note from a Dr would get you some needed time off. Now would be the time also to find a therapist if you do not already have one. You need to get some support on your side with all you went through. A divorce is stress enough without all the rest thrown in!

I am so sorry that mugging happened to you. Your boss sounds like my father years ago......Oh just get over it....! Nip it in the bud! Of course you can't get over it!!! Not now anyway!! He should go thru a mugging..he would indeed feel different about what he said. People try to be helpful by trying not too make it such a big deal but it IS a big deal... a very big deal!!!

Hope things get better for you. Keep posting and let us know how you are doing!!!

Thinking of you!

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Dee
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