Dear T,
I sometimes visit an online forum about psychotherapy. And people there talk about how they are convinced that their Ts care about them. Now, I respect you and I like you (as a T) and I want to keep working with you, so that's not an issue. But I struggle with this "caring" concept. Are all those people deluded? (Unlikely. In most cases their Ts have apparently told them they care.) Am I sabotaging for myself by wishing that you would actually care about me, and not just put on a front while I'm there? Why do I even care about it, as long as I feel that the therapy is doing something for me?
I am really struggling with this.
Apteryx