Thanks guys, this really made my morning. I have to go to work today and walk RIGHT past where the incident took place. I went to my boss/friends house for dinner last night. I am POSITIVE he invited me so i would have to walk in the same neiborhood where it happened and after dark. Its just his way...he is VERY kind but yes, also a bit insensitive.
It really helped to have some input guys....hugs to you all.