I need to vent...so I'm on 3 vistarils a day, 2 klonopins, and now I'm taking 1/2 a pill of paxil at night (the doc is weaning me off of it). They diagnosed me with anxiety/panic disorder and PTSD. It's not that I'm exactly a "sex addict," but I *do* like to "take care of business" every night before I go to bed and have done so for years. My husband isn't really interested in sex, which is fine, whatever. I think it helped me relax afterwards so I could sleep.

What used to take 3-5 minutes now takes close to an hour and a half. My psychiatrist & therapist both agree it's the medication. Since I haven't had any major "freakouts" in over a week, I think I'm ok. But this business of not being able to achieve orgasm - even an unsatisfying one - is downright depressing, no thanks to the antidepression pills I take.