Thank you guys! No, **** (I am surprised this site turns this word into asterisks as if it were an f-word) is not something I would be interested in, I think. Just had more sex with him and it was fine without oral but in the longer run I think vaginal-only would be insufficient. What is the safety on unprotected cunnilingus? I am disease-free and want to stay this way. Yes, he is a very nice guy; he was able to guess that my father committed CSA from the fact that I am not in contact with him and a couple other little observations. I was impressed. He is caring and does not put me down.