I agree, you're doing nothing wrong at all. Sorry for being so late to reply too.

There's a wonderful sketch by stand up comedy chap Steve Hughes "straight is the new gay" and its all about perception of gay & straight. I saw this man live a few times, very clever man and this was the section I always remember the most. I hope the link I put up works, if not, please do a youtube search. Hopefully it will make you smile.

Edit : its very rude with swear words, so will take the link down and let you search if ok!