omg i am trying so hard to not have anything to do with the horror that is my family. they keep making such a big deal about what is going on between me my aunt and grandmother. they are horrible people and have never ever made me feel like any part of there family. now that i have said i want nothing to do with then suddenly everyone is intrested in me and my son .they are sending me B-day presents i dont want they have invited me to my grandmothers b-day party. thet want my sons address to send him stuff. they never wanted to do any of this stuff .we didnt matter to them. why do we now .i'm getting the, life is to short crap from my farther and uncle but they are not the ones being treated like this. and i am doing just fine not talking to them. i'm over it, i'm not angry i am happy without them being able to be mean to me. life is to short to let people treat me like that. to short to waste my time on horrible people who doesnt want anything to do with me.but doesnt want to look bad. i want them to all leave me alone. i was having a good day why keep reminding me i was treated like this