they all keep acting like my grandmother is the victom. i should let it go because she is so old i should know she is just stupid and all this and acting like anything my grandmother does is ok and i'm the one who is being horrible for not talking to any of them and they keep saying this and my farther feels the need to inform me of all this .i love my farther but if he keeps up i wont be able to talk to him. i'm just horrible tonight.