I was doing some rocking myself before things faded. I wish I could hug someone without it causing a stress reaction. I wish someone could hold my hands in a attempt to be comforting without triggering memories of a predator. I could still hear and he did something very helpful. He was talking about safe stuff from the day before and asking me to remember things. It worked to shift me off the memory although I was babbling like an idiot for a while before I calmed down and was able to see. They are life coaches and I think maybe they could help