I am not sure how she felt.. I think she was waiting to see my reaction... and I didn't even blink an eye or say one word.. other than hmmm ... She said she was crying when she was talking about her teen years...so I would have to guess even as an adult looking back at her teen years she didn't see her self as a cold turd...maybe sad she mad so many mistakes.... but I doubt very much as a cold turd....But then I wasn't there.. so i don't know... I think under the circumstances calling her a cold turd is rather cruel... I won't say anything unless she brings it up again.....I don't think many people would look at them selves even reflecting about doing something stupid as a cold turd... but then that is me... I think she should say to him what makes him such hot *****... but then I do tend to put my foot in my mouth.. so I will chill.. lol