hmm tho it may seem that way, that kind of paints us into a corner, but then we learn that if we started painting in the furthest corner and worked towards the door, well then we have an exit. I know I know, I am a half full kinda person.

Plus behavior can change, people can change, situations can change. I kinda think if we expect the bad, it has more chance of happening, we might actually help it happen by seemingly accident.