It is a very empty nest!! Intense showdown with my exhusband last night left wondering at any sanity I might have had left.....the man is a nut. He came by get this....to just tell me he was thinking about me on the 5th anniversary of our divorce and to let me know that he still loves me (he divorced me, fathered a child before the divorce and lives with a different girl all the time) and when I asked him to leave (i didn't let him in, only on the porch) he got angry as usual and hit me. You would think at some point I would learn to anticipate that but we have been divorced 5 years I want him to just go away. I thought it would get better when our daughter left for college, he would have no excuses to "drop by" the house but he still thinks he owns it. Thanks to everybody who is writing to me....I will say again that this site has saved me. I'm must head out to the hospital for my next to last radiation treatment....YEAH!!!