I have lesbian friends, bi friends and straight friends. Some of those that are lesbian and or bi have never been abused in any way shape or form. and one lesbian friend told me she knew she was attracted to women in kindergarted and her first abusive sex experience wasn't until she was 16 by a guy that thought he could cure her by forcing her to have sex with him.

Being bi , gay, lesbian and or straight is just about what each persons preferences are. some people are just naturally more attracted to guys, or girls or both just like one person prefers wearing the color purple where as another person hates the color purple, one person hate turnips and aother person loves turnips, one person like country music and yet another person likes rock music and still others like folk, reggae, rap, classical and so on.

From day one people have their ouw preferences of likes and dislikes and thats fine.