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shortandcute · Nov 13, 2012, 10:21 AM

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Let's see.......
My oldest sister whining all the time. She is always so negative. She likes playing the martyr, because she wants everyone to think of her as the family "Mother Teresa," but then whines and complains about how everyone is "putting her out." That triggers me because I know she wants me to offer to rescue her because I've done that before, but I ended up in debt over it and can no longer afford to do that.

My daughter's panic attacks. She panics alot about stuff and sometimes takes it out on me (she's getting better, tho).

Not knowing where my son is at all times.....He's 24 but still lives at home. I don't want to be hovering over him because he is an adult, but if he ends spending the nite or weekend with his friends and doesnt tell me, I get panicked.

A friend I know from AA.....on one hand she is the sweetest kindest person I know. But she also has a sever case of PTSD, and some major anger issues, and often goes off into these tangents, becomes easily angered and and really has these tantrums.

People getting on my case for taking meds...OOOOHHHH THAT REALLY PISSES ME OFF!

There are alot more but I don't want to take up too much space.

I guess I can mention a few more.
Black Friday----I don't like going because of all the chaos and crowds, plus at that time of the month, I'm broke. So I usually don't go, but then my family acts like they're gonna commit suicide if I don't go---but if I do go, they completely ignore me.
Elevators, but only if there is someone I don't know on it also--rape issues
Being treated or talked to as if I were a 2 year old--I don't get that as much as I used to-but I still get it sometimes. You see, I am actually a midget (really!) so I have gotten a lot of people talking to me as if I were a child; and doing things like patting me on the head, and laughing when I get mad, etc. (i am actually on the "tall end" of being a midget--if i were any taller, i would not be considered a midget)
WALMART!!!
Having to be picked up for my appointments--I don't drive because of anxiety issues, and because of my financial situation, I am able to get rides to my mental health appointments at no charge to me. But I always get panicked because I don't know who's going to pick me up (again, rape issues).
CROWDS!