Maybe you inspire Renew, he could be trying hard to get his life in order so on day soon you can both live as a married couple. Maybe you inspire him to desire a better life. Just back off and both of you rest in the serenety of trust and faith and loveingkindness, just let time take the time for the next few months. Try not to have sex, maybe limit yourself to hugs, kisses, and naps (if you can control) Anyway, time "Does take Some Time", you two i will be praying for renew and agaphe girl because right now me and larry are in the exact same situation here in wally wally wa, you two are definately not alone. Many believeing couples really feel punished, feel ashamed, feel overburdened, for getting sexual too fast, but then again the world makes it so easy to fall prey. AgapheGirl, trust trust and trust but also do what you know is Best in the situation, the Possibilietis are endless, each day poses as a brand new opportunity for anything to aspire in any direction the freedom of choice is in your pocket Agaphegirl, don't let anything get the better of you for day by day there is a way and you are strong enough with higher power .