It is worse than we supposed.

GP: I would ask him to get tested. We don't test males for HPV. Asymptomatic male carriers can't be determined through our current testing abilities. Genital warts are confirmed clinically. When you perform oral sex, a condom will protect you. If he performs oral sex, a dental dam will protect him. If he has a history of cold sores, he should avoid performing oral sex on you to avoid transmitting the oral herpes virus into a genital herpes outbreak.