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Originally Posted by Leed
It sounds to me that your Mother is INSANELY JEALOUS of your girlfriend -- and your girlfriend senses this -- thus the static between them. I'm sure your girlfriend can tell when your mother just LOOKS at her, that she isn't wanted around your mother. Women can sense these things.  I would hope that you would talk to your Mother and let her know that who you choose as a mate or girlfriend is YOUR business, and if she doesn't like it, oh well. Afterall, YOU are the one who will have to live with any prospective mate -- not her. And remind her that YOU will do the choosing of your mate - not her.
Some mothers done like ANY female the son brings home -- perhaps she sees this one as being closer to your "chosen one" as any that you've brought home and that's why she doesn't like her. Mom needs to be put in her place -- nicely but sternly. Just a warning. Hugs, Lee
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So true! When my aunt was pregnant, she used to say "if this is a boy, I ALREADY HATE
HER".
She had a girl.