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Old Nov 14, 2012, 12:39 AM
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Originally Posted by kittycat97 View Post
I agree with you Mr Venomous. It is definitely a lonely experience. I am a teenager waiting for an Autism assessment. No matter how much i tell people, they don't believe or trust me. Sometimes i wonder what is the point talking to a psychologist when he doesn't believe me too like all the other people in my life. I really want to have friends but I have problems making friends and maintaining them. I have only one friend currently but we are on the verge of breaking up too... I think it is best for us Autistic people not to have any friends as people don't understand us and they feel frustrated and depressed talking to us. We are only wasting their time.
Kittycat, not true. You aren't wasting anybody's time and underestimate yourself too much.

A good psychologist can help you learn to communicate better. You're lucky that you're young enough to be helped. My generation recieved no such help.

Someday, someone will want to be your friend. They will NEED you to be your friend, and you will discover you can do this. I have only had a few close, close friendships in my life, but I found that one on one, I could do this. And they needed me as a friend. It was not hard at all, because love led the way. I only wish I could do that at will, lol.

So stick with the counseling, ok? It can help, but it's not magic.
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Thanks for this!
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