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Originally Posted by sesame
He was really angry at me because I was slightly irritated over wanting a few minutes to myself. He mockingly whined about how incredibly stressful my life must be, and then today he sent me a few strings of nasty messages over not calling him back, calling me a selfish c*** (I went for a walk to pick up a movie and was then watching the movie with my parents, had my phone on silent, but I called him back once it was over). He didn't have anything important to say, and just talked for a few minutes about some movie he was watching as well. It wasn't an emergency, nothing worth getting upset over.
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First off, it's not like anything new to him. You seem to have made that clear to him already. Him coming early already is disrespectful of your needs, he seems to simply ignore your wishes and you can't let that go on. Second, the fact that he got angry, shows he doesn't even make an attempt to understand where you're coming from or consider your feellings. Lastly, the fact that he would call you such a degrading name as you said... I'm sorry but this guy, if he hasn't always been, has become very selfish IMO. He sounds very self absorbed. Like his needs are all important and yours aren't even a consideration, that you didn't answer his call etc...
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Originally Posted by sesame
... as well him rattling off lists of a few things I do that really irritate him.
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Why am I not surprised? You do need to have a talk with him. He clearly has no respect for your boundaries and ground rules need to be made IMO. If he doesn't want to accept them, you might ask yourself if this is really the right guy for you.
Just my 2c