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Originally Posted by s4ndm4n2006
First off, it's not like anything new to him. You seem to have made that clear to him already. Him coming early already is disrespectful of your needs, he seems to simply ignore your wishes and you can't let that go on. Second, the fact that he got angry, shows he doesn't even make an attempt to understand where you're coming from or consider your feellings. Lastly, the fact that he would call you such a degrading name as you said... I'm sorry but this guy, if he hasn't always been, has become very selfish IMO. He sounds very self absorbed. Like his needs are all important and yours aren't even a consideration, that you didn't answer his call etc...
Why am I not surprised? You do need to have a talk with him. He clearly has no respect for your boundaries and ground rules need to be made IMO. If he doesn't want to accept them, you might ask yourself if this is really the right guy for you.
Just my 2c
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I am glad you wrote that, as it was similar to what I was thinking. Its all well and good being keen to see you, but that romantic cuteness has gone the moment he lost his temper and got nasty.
My b/f used to get sad when we were in a long distant relationship, as my weekend didnt start until Sat eve and his on a Friday. He wanted to drive and see me on the Friday night and I said no, explained that I needed space to unwind etc, and my job back then was very demanding, with a 4.30am alarm call. But he respected my choice, even tho he really wanted to see me earlier.