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Originally Posted by riotgrrrl
I am glad you wrote that, as it was similar to what I was thinking. Its all well and good being keen to see you, but that romantic cuteness has gone the moment he lost his temper and got nasty.
My b/f used to get sad when we were in a long distant relationship, as my weekend didnt start until Sat eve and his on a Friday. He wanted to drive and see me on the Friday night and I said no, explained that I needed space to unwind etc, and my job back then was very demanding, with a 4.30am alarm call. But he respected my choice, even tho he really wanted to see me earlier.
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Good for him. That's how it should be. Some men, well women too, I'm sure, don't understand how much that plays into the relationship and how it strengthens things if you just respect the wishes of the other person.
I have to add though, I convict myself here as I have broken this rule myself in my past so please don't take this as judgemental. I can understand the urge to do that too so :/