I can have sex with a guy who is very much into me even if I am not reciprocating, because I enjoy being liked. I have changed over the years in that respect; when younger, I very much enjoyed being liked but not to the point of having sex; now, I can. Does it make sense? I am probably not alone in that - I am sure it is pretty normal to enjoy being liked and adored and wanted. I suspect that everyone is like that to some extent, unless there has been very severe SA.