OK, so I inquired which topic has the most views on this forum and it is this one, about breasts. If that is the case, then why do people not answer my question? Should I post within this thread to be answered? I will.

I had perfect breasts (both perfect shape and on the larger side but not too large) and all guys, young and old, were completely crazy about them.

enter age, detrimental weight fluctuations and very long term breastfeeding, and I do not have perfect breasts anymore. They are OK, but not perfect.

I have a new guy who is able to come twice in one session and wants to see me almost every day. 12 years ago he asked me how my then husband, who is 12 years my senior, was able to get such a beautiful young girl. I thought that it was a theoretical question - the guy himself was married to an age peer and wondered how relationships across ages work. Frankly I did not know what to answer and 12 years is not a lot for me because I have had many men older than my parents. But at any rate I thought it was a theoretical inquiry. Then last week as soon as he found out that I was available he shows up at my door asking me what I am looking for in a partner. I am healing from an extremely difficult divorce and all I am looking for is not to be humiliated, which is what I said. He clearly thought that he can pull it off and next day we had sex. So the question 12 years ago was not a theoretical one.

While all this seems fine, he does not play with my breasts and I do not like that. I see that he is clearly excited about me in general, but... no attention to my breasts at all.

I do not know how to behave: should I ask him for breast play thinking that my breasts are probably simply not attractive enough for him? I do not want to burden him or make him do something he does not want to do. But I do want breast play. I like how my nipples get erect from breast play and all that. So I wonder what other people do as I am sure this is a common enough situation.

Thank you!