You can't 'overcome' experiences, life is all about experiences. Consciously observing events introduced new information to the brain, this information can strengthen or weaken current behaviours and core beliefs or create new ones (Experience). Always changing, you can't be above experiences.

Everyone has a skewed perception, no one sees reality exactly as it is, we see it as we are.

Dog bites you when your a baby? You will fear dogs for the rest of your life unless you have positive experiences with dogs to change that core belief that dogs are bad and are to be avoided.

Grow up in a Catholic family? your going to believe in the god they portray and this will greatly differ from how you see the world as opposed to someone that grew up in an Atheist home.

Apparently it's hard for people to accept that everyone doesn't perceive the same world. It's the same world, but everyone’s brain interprets it differently, because everyone’s brain IS different.