I think the example is just an example, it doesn't mean that she thinks what you are going through is as insignificant as a date.

I don't think you're copying Call of Duty. The things you say don't remind me of that at all. Do you play that game? She may just be linking it just because she has her own beliefs about games.

Don't hurt yourself, okay? You say you want to decide and not them. But, that would not be good. Don't give up.