What do you mean "too quick" ? the breakup ? yeah, but we went fast. I have the feeling I lived 3 months in those 3 weeks.
No he is not a liar. thanks for the advice though. I know it is well meant.
About MSN I was wrong. I just found out that he had computer problems. Wasn't his style to do such a thing anyway.

- he is moving to a small appartment, he was taking care of his mum and younger brother before
- I know where he works (he showed me)
- I know what his work is, he showed me (very serious and responsible)
- He showed me pictures of his sisters
- he told me his life story, also very intimate details you don't tell so easily
-he talked to his best friend about me when he doesn't talk about important stuff with other people usually
-he is almost 30 and I am 35 but we look the same age even though that is not very important to me.
- people met on the internet are not necessarly weirder than others (hey, I am sure you are not weird either, even though I would like to know you a little bit better before giving you my PIN number :-) )
-no we didn't have a fling, we were making projects for the future
-he came too my place and met part of my family, they love him and they think he is a sweet guy. they don't understand his fears.

The problem is : right now he is lost (those things happen) and he doesn't know where he stands.
I have decided to keep in touch but I don't want this to settle into a friendship and I am wondering whether he is taking the separation "well" now because we are still in touch, so that he doesn't feel the separation or if he doesn't care that much. Of course, you can't answer this. You're no psychics.
I am wondering if its better to put him at ease and see if he can overcome his fears and see what feelings he has for me : friendship or love
or if it is better to confront him again now.

Everybody said we were a great couple, even if we weren't together long, so it is hard to just walk away. People were smiling at us in restaurants, on the street. I never had that before. waow