Icetea...Fayerody is telling you the truth. We are not beating up on you.
I know about moving too fast and reaping the heartache afterwards.
My advice to you, if you are wise, is to not contact this man on your own. Let HIM do the work and be cool about your responses to him. If he really wants to build a relationship with y ou, he must come forward without ambivalence. If you continue to contact him, accommodate him and make excuses for him, I fear you are in for much heartache.
Patty