Don't ASSume. That is the lesson I learned. I assumed, even though she did set up a day and time, that I had the interview. She said she'd call the company first, and would call me back. I never heard from her, so assumed that I should just go to the interview. I thought it might appear that I wasn't listening to her if I called later to ask, "Uh, duh, do I have the interview? duh.) I also have been criticized in the past when asking people to clarify what they're saying............so now have this thing where I've become afraid to ask just to be sure. I didn't want to look stupid, but ended up appearing like an entitled box of rocks by going to the interview or non-interview, whatever. I actually didn't even make it there because I did call 10 minutes before the supposed time to tell them there was a car accident a few blocks from them, and I will have to take a detour, and might be a few minutes late. (I guess I played traffic reporter today as well) She was like, "Huh?????? No, I was going to call you and let you know if you had an interview with so and so." When I got home, I found the standard rejection email in my inbox. Nice. I feel like such a loser. I am also getting paranoid that I might be blacklisted or something, or potential employers frequent this site, and have discovered my identity. I don't know if I'm mentally or emotionally ill, but I do know that my employment record sucks. I always let things pile up, and then quit. I don't know how to resolve things at work or even at home. I always just want to run away........but then I come back and have to deal with the lack of respect, and the judgement.