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I have been so hurt by my T, and it's the worst kind of pain, isn't it?? It's awful when the person who is supposed to be there to help you is hurting you.

There are a lot of wise words in this thread. It IS good to slow down, to not think in absolutes, to wait to hear T's side, to be really honest about how you feel as soon as you have the chance. That's what T is for.

Hang in there and breathe and allow the possibility that where there is rupture there can be repair.
to you