That's something I hate about myself. I am a grown man. I'm 48 and I still behave with the emotional maturity of a twelve year old. I just don't get it. I am an intelligent person and yet I use such poor judgment that you'd think I'm on hard drugs, or drinking and that's not happening. I'm just a twit! This has been an issue for me recently, so I guess I'm a little passionate on the topic right now. I was reading the above posts and they give me hope that maybe I can just embrace that juvenile and let him teach me to let go once in a while.