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Nov 16, 2012, 01:14 AM
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Member Since: Mar 2010
Location: Indy
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Have you ever gotten counseling to work out your feelings from being molested? If nothing else the statement you don't want to be around you and you're sure others feel the same sounds like you might be depressed. Also going through a divorce can be traumatic and therapy could help you work through that as well.
As far as being with someone: If you really are asexual then you are not alone. If you look I'm sure you could find a dating site that specializes. My brother is 26 and has never had any friends, that includes girlfriends. In his case people scare him and he literally can't picture himself ever having sex with another person. So he's convinced he'll never find someone so why try. Sex is not the end all be all for some people. You just have to find them. Let's face it our society pushes sex and makes you feel like a freak if you aren't having it but that's just not true. Everyone has their comfort level and maybe therapy could help you find yours. Once you know exactly where your comfort level is and can say so with confidence you'll be one step closer to finding someone to be with that will understand you and love you for it. 
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