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Originally Posted by lonelyplanet
Please don't tell me to ask her if she accepts them, because I know she would probably say no. ... am trying to get organised lol
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If I gave T a gift and she refused it, I would be devastated. Far better IMO to ask ahead of time and avoid that whole possibility.
of course if you ask ahead of time, you may get that old T standby, that wiggly-eyebrow look and '
what would it mean to you, to give me a gift?" routine.

With a reaction like that I'm not sure I would be confident enough to give a gift anyway.