Hey guys didn't get a chance til now to read the posts. Thanks a million for replying. I think ehhh most of you guys should be actually Ts yourselves. Love all the advice and yep I think I would be completely shattered if she didn't accept it, so I think I won't bother taking the chance. Also, I don't want the whole why do you feel the need to give me a present ...... so I guess I'll just skip it altogether.

Thanks for all the input