Early in my t, I was so scared that I'd cross her boundaries and get kicked out of t. I asked her how I was supposed to know what the boundaries are. She mentioned that small gifts are fine on occasion. I've never gave her anything though. I had a Thanksgiving card yesterday and couldn't find the courage to give it to her I plan to give it to her at my next appointment in 2 weeks.

If you decide to give her something, I suggest food, homemade items, office supplies, something related to psychology or therapy. I have saw Frued sticky notes, stress balls, mood magnets, etc for sale online.