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Old Nov 16, 2012, 09:57 AM
bighands bighands is offline
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LOL. "With" sounds best to me. The others just sound awkward. Of course, it may have something to do with the fact that I like the idea that conception should be one of the most wonderful, beautiful, loving, cooperative acts 2 people can possibly take part in. Making another life. So, "with" fit that best. "By" and "from" sound almost like it was done without her consent.

I think it comes from my Native American background but, to me, the way language and words are used should be expressions of feeling not just documentation of ideas, settings and activities. So, even if not syntactically correct, I prefer to use them however I see fit to best describe what I am seeing AND feeling. F dem grammar Nazis!

I can actually remember the first time I ever heard the word orgasm used as a verb. It was Mariel Hemingway in the 1985 movie "Creator" when she was complaining to Peter O'Toole that she "orgasms too easily". I remember thinking it sounded weird but not as weird as her thinking she had a problem! Never really heard it used again as a verb until I came to this site. Funny.

Also being in my 40s, I used to come a few times a day but now am happy with several a week. Age, my own personal energy and libido all play into it. If you're happy with the current frequency, you're good to go! I wouldn't mess with Wellbutrin. It made my wife not be able to pee. At all! She just could not; even when her bladder was painfully full. She had to get catheterized to get relief while she weaned from it. It is a confirmed but uncommon side effect. Needless to say, she didn't feel like having sex while her bladder felt like it was ready to explode.