yeah this sounds just like me.

someone says to me .."hey how about this tomorrow?"

...I say..."hey I don't even understand tomorrow!"

suggestions?

...well?.....first up...it's not personal.

someone who struggles to make plans is afraid to 'accidently' hurt people they care about.

example: i don't answer the phone so that I don't end up feeling bad for not being able to express myself sufficiently and immediately to those that call me....I ring them back when I'm ready....only people I know call me

mental health changes rapidly and unexplained....it's easier to follow it than attempt to arrive there before it.

so it aint' a NO....but it also aint' a YES....it's a wait and see

but it is not personal