I am done with (1), in person. He was amused and recalled coming while sitting in class in college. I asked to recall the girls in the classroom and he said that many girls excited him but there was one that excited him the most. He was too shy to tell her. I will ask him next time if he remembers her looks.

He said that my life must be very interesting being full of orgasms. He has not idea I had none for three and a half years and feared that it would be forever like that.

Will do (2) when he arrives. Now that I am done with (1), I am more confident about (2).

Thank you, Hankster, it was the right advice for me.