Rhapsody, thank you for the advise....truth. i'm extremely nervous of doing it. but i'm sure my husband is there to back me. he has been supportive and has just recently gotten frustrated. our bank account has been depleted quite often due to the difficulties recently.

thanks to you too petunia.

bebop,he was in therapy. then he decided to go on medical leave and quit college. he wanted to go into intense therapy.....which has yet to happen.

maybe we should be a bit more firm.

thank you for letting us know we are not alone. and for the hugs! i could use them!

sara