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Old Nov 16, 2012, 01:22 PM
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So I just couldn't take it anymore. that girl from work has just gotten worse and worse. I can;t even explain how bad she has been to all of us. The disrespect, talking down to us, on our cases every five minutes about god knows what.. and I bet he doesn't even know either. It's been so tense and ridiculous. She has stopped doing any actual work at all, and instead just orders and demands us to do everything. Somehow she thinks she is the boss, and an utter control problem she has for sure.

The people I work with are all young, and they need their jobs so are afraid to speak up. One new girl is 30 and she is pretty quiet and soft spoken but her and I had a chat with our bosses boss yesterday because our boss was not there. The new girl was the one to bring it up to the boss, after 4 days she has had it. So the boss wanted me to write her an email today about it all because I am not in. She set up a meeting for the new girl to talk to her about it. She was not pleased at all with what is going on. So that is good. And said that having us dreading to come to work was totally not ok, and she would handle it.

What is bad is after that, this girls behaviour got even worse as the day went on. I listened to three lectures from her for no reason and then she started in on us again, there was three of us, and and another higher person present. I couldn't take it anymore, so I interrupted her and told her she needed to stop. but it came out a bit aggressive, and I was pissed off. When she said "What!" I kinda laid into her, well I felt like I was just sticking up for myself, but I told her she needs to stop telling us what to do every five minutes, the she is our equal and we all know how to do our job. Ahh so she says " maybe if you did you work!" haha wtf, are you freaking kidding me. OMG I work till my knuckles are bleeding and swollen, while she sits on her ***, barking at people. And she tells us how she is responsible for us, no she is not, she was responsible for checking things off a clip board.. hardly the same thing. I was on different jobs in different building than her most of the day. NO ONE put her in charge of anything.

Anyways the higher up person there, well she has already complained about this girl too she said, She separated us. She was nice to me about this whole thing, and she sent us to different jobs. Well so I guess this girl starts crying, calls her mom, and leaves work without telling anyone.

So today I have to email my boss about her behaviour, I suck at writing so I will just try to hit key points and keep it simple. However, that boss had left by the time I told this girl to back off. And now I am afraid I will be in trouble too, I sure hope not. I probably should not have said anything, but I can only take so much. I am not sure what to say about the incident, but I feel that I should address what I did as well, and take responsibility. Any ideas how to go about it, I really need help with this, I am not good at this and have not worked in so long, I don't want to muck it up.

I feel bad that I made her cry and go home, but at the same time, she treats us like absolute dirt everyday for zero reason, and we are all nice to her all the time despite that. It seems odd to me that she can dish it out so well, but one time of one of us standing up to her sends her home in tears. I could handle someone being rude or disrespectful some of the time, but every day, for the entire day, literally I could time it, it would be about every five minutes, more than exessive by any stretch.

Sorry for the drama and length.
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