Thanks Genetic and James,

Ohhh how weird, The place we work our of and where this went down is called Snow Bird. haha so weird you said that Gen. The email is Isuppose because I will not be back till next week and she wants to deal with it right away. Tho I think talking about it in person would be more productive. The one who separated us doesn't work with us or in our area really. The place does seem a bit disorganized in terms of operations. I really like this job tho and am happy to be there, this is the only real problem.

She was not really placed in authority, we go out on jobs and someone is given the duty of checking the work, it changes day to day.. but I think it has gone to her head a bit. No one else acts like this, if she was in authority yes, it would be unacceptable to treat people that way, our actual bosses don't act like this.

She is the same position as the rest of us, I trained with her, started on the same day, and she is required to do the same work as everyone else. The only person who thinks otherwise is her. She doesn't work tho, just orders everyone else around and oh brother.. we don't know where she is half the time, she just takes off. And when she is present, she barely does anything. It's physical labor so you will notice if someone is not working, because you will have to do their jobs.

James, that's the thing I do feel guilty, I have already run through my head "she must have had a hard life", maybe she wasn't taught social skills, I know she has ADD so I have googled how to help people with ADD at work and how to work with them, I have tried so many ways to communicate with her and to withhold boundaries. It's not really all an ADD thing I don't think. But I have to stop that, because I felt guilty for even thinking bad of her bahaviour, which led me to put up with more.