Hang in there.... and you and your husband will make it through this tough time TOGETHER.... just think of it like that of when we have to teach our little two year olds how to behave and how to act.... they learn through what we, the parents allow or don't allow - in other words "tough love" when it is needed.
I personally believe we teach others how they can treat us.... ((( hugs ))).
LoVe,
Rhapsody -