I have made it a pretty strict rule with my parts that they are not allowed to come on to anybody. This isn't to necessarily protect the system, but to protect other people. There is this one guy, we'll call "K" who one of my parts is obsessed with, but I am just not interested in. Plain and simple. This part doesn't spend a whole lot of time "out" and so 9/10 "K" would be neglected, making him feel inadequate. The part who is in love with "K" seems to think that it's unfair that she not be given the opportunity to accept his advances, or return advances.

The part is a teenager and therefore selfish. I don't have as much control over my parts as I would like to, and so this part still gets in some flirting, making it impossible to cut "K" out of our lives completely. Basically the discussions are limited to facebook only though and I made the mistake of letting the part invite "K" over in which she didn't even show up, and I was forced to deal with him. A guy I am not even interested in. I didn't even know what to do to entertain him. This part is insistent that she sleep with "K" only for me to return and push him away. I am insistent that she drop it immediately. I mean as far as parts go, aren't I, the host the one in charge of who is our partner? And I refuse to hurt people and allow each part to have their own partner. That's basic cheating and there is no excuse for it.

So should I let her pursue "K"? Or should I stick to my grounds that it's not okay? Am I being too sensitive? Have you guys ever had different parts like different people?