Based on guy #2's words today, I would be greatly suprised if he does not have sex with me in the hotel at Stanford. Greatly surprised. I mean, I do not discount the possibility, but I assign it a low likelihood. He is now trying to get booked for a talk before I leave for Europe which is on Dec 24. I do not think it is logistically possible - usually such things are arranged well in advance. We'll see if he succeeds.

Well, since he is going to be in some sort of a hotel, I do not have to clean my apartment for him, which is good news. He is a clean freak and would have a heart attack upon entering my place.

Guy #1, on the other hand, invited me to his apartment which he shares with his adult daughter, who works for FB, and I was wildly happy to see that both his and her rooms are so messy, so messy that even my place is better in comparison which is saying a lot. And their kitchen table has even less clear space than mine. Now I would not get tense any more about inviting him over. What a relief.