It was an impromptu idea of my male friend from Maine. He is the son of my ex 2nd H's former gf and they lived together and developed a r/s which outlived the romance between ex and gf, so the guy visited us. It turned out that he and I went to the same preschool, except that I was 7 years older. Because of the age diff, because I was married to someone who was a father figure, because the guy is infinitely boyish and because I helped him find jobs, because of all that I feel maternal towards him. So... I was taken by suprise when he suggested "masturbation therapy" (a lovely coinage, I think) over Skype. I know everything about his sex life and he knows everything about mine, in RL. But doing it together was a novel idea for me. And, I was a bit embarrassed. But, I tried my best while being a bit embarrassed. He liked everything.

Then I had to call it a day because I am bipolar and thus in need of a strict bedtime.

But eventually we will do it again and I am looking for ideas: what can you over Skype? I have seen posts in the R/S forum referencing Skype sex in LD r/s so it does happen. Here there is no r/s, just pure therapy.