I need a tasteful sensual idea for a birthday gift from a guy. He keeps asking. I wanted to find something intangible - checked the season of SF ballet and found Cinderella in May. I love this ballet. OK, that is good, but he wants to do something now. I went on the site of Liberator hoping to find a reasonably priced small piece of sex furniture but they removed all low end products and their line now starts at $450 which is way too much. Lingerie I do not want because I think it is too hard to buy it even for self to say nothing about someone else. So maybe mild BDSM - handcuffs and that kind of stuff that I have never tried but would be willing to try? But has to be tasteful. Please help with ideas. I want to tell him tonight. My birthday is in a week.