(((Nicks Nose)) - I haven't reached this stage with my kids but I expect it to happen. Don't have any personal advice but I imagine its more intense for a single parent who has a strong bond with their children. Yes working on Christmas certainly puts a damper as well as not having enough money. Perhaps be honest / discuss what you and your sons should do along with the expectations. Personally I feel people put way to much pressure on themselves at Christmas. You're most likely thinking this is the last Xmas and you want to make it the best....but that's not absolutely necessary. Sometimes simple is special but you all need to discuss this so no ones disappointed.

Do you have a therapist who can help you. I wonder if empty nest happens more with very devoted parents. Don't forget to give yourself a pat on the back for doing a good job as a parent. I think the scrapbook is a nice idea to give later on. The main thing is to acknowledge the feelings, stay connected after he leaves and explore this next chapter of your life.

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