Ok thank you both!
Yes I think you are right. I had a discussion with him yesterday. I told him I wasn't interested in staying friends with him. He got very defensive, agressive. Well yeah, if he wants something from me, he has to contact me now and he better has something to offer. I am not sure I would take him back even if he went to therapy. Anger and fear made him say really mean things yesterday. I am not sure I can forgive them.