Support also includes being honest. If we keep condoning behaviors such as self destruction how are we helping? Being direct and honest can be done in a sensitive way, without the use of insult. Feelings can even be validated.

I believe this gets people thinking about their problematic thinking and behaviors that cause them and others stress. It is an opportunity to learn and grow, and even strengthen relationships.

These are not empty words. I have been through it.

I have read some posts here that are personal attacks. Sometimes, frustration can cause us to vent indirectly, but we should try to be more respectful of others. Posting content such as "You are a selfish idiot" is out of line.