I am in love with a guy who is sometimes quite nasty to other people, and am wondering whether his behaviour could be an indication that further into our relationship he could become quite nasty to me, or possibly that if we had children, he could be nasty to them. Or should I actually not judge him for it at all, and just accept this behaviour of his? Currently, he is very nice to me though.

To help imagine being in this situation yourself, would you be able to continue going out with someone if they were nasty to other people. If the answer is yes, then ask yourself the question again if the situation was to the extreme, whereby your lover killed someone in cold blood - would you still love them, and continue wanting to be with your lover?

Another reason for me questioning the situation and needing advice on this is because sadly, I've an on-going problem whereby I often find reasons to consider terminating a relationship. I've sought professional help in this area, but haven't yet got to the stage of knowing whether my fears are valid or not.

If anyone could give me any advice on this, I'd be very grateful. Thanks in advance.